Social networks shouldn't run on outrage-optimized algorithms or invisible popularity-contests. You Me Them is a calm, user-centric space where you set the dial. Your circles, your parameters, your feed.
We break down digital connections into three clean, deliberate relationship parameters. No compromises.
Your space is your own. You organize accounts into circles that match your real-life contexts. No global rankings, no visible vanity metrics, and no "engagement" traps that force you to perform.
Digital boundaries should be mutual. You can see every circle across the platform that you are placed in, and remove yourself with a single tap. Relationship paths require zero reciprocal permission.
Import human-assembled circle templates for open source interests, regional safety alerts, or hobby clusters. Constrained directory tagging guarantees you discover vetted, high-quality, and zero-spam listings.
When we connect with true boundary control, we build spaces of genuine collective trust. Our domain is our design blueprint.
We replace engagement-based sorting with a mathematical, completely transparent feed scheduler modeled after network routers. It is called Weighted Round-Robin (WRR).
You place users inside concentric circles and assign them importance rankings. The feed engine pulls chronological items from these lists and weaves them together based on weights you control.
Inner circles receive a 10x token weight compared to outer circles.
The timeline is deterministic and predictable. Re-sort or weight circle filters on the fly.
Follow humans and traditional RSS/Atom feeds side by side in the same timeline. Feed volume is capped per source so a busy feed never drowns out human connections.
Rather than using a centralized AI board to moderate language, user block and uncircle actions are compiled anonymously. High spikes trigger auto-hides reversibly.
To stop coordinated reporting mobs, the platform uses a User Diversity Entropy Score. Highly overlapping, clustered reporters have their safety weights downscaled.
